As teens, we have a lot on our plates. With the rush of hormones, and potentially crushing pressures of maturity, there is no doubt we can develop some internal struggles.
At this point in time, our lives are just a wave of ever-changing and evolving moments.
And as we navigate through these experiences, we’re told to turn to our teachers or parents for help or support. However, sometimes it may be difficult for teens and adults to see eye to eye, even if the adult has already gone through the experience.
The key word is “gone,” which is past tense. The times are always changing; life now is not what it was for our parents when they were our age. Considering the rift that this can create between teens and adult, it is important to know that we still have allies to turn to.
And who better to ask for help than people who are on the same roller coaster we are on?
We are more alike with our peers than we assume. Of course, everyone experiences things differently, however, in the grand scheme of things, there is a common understanding among us teens.
There are plenty of youth groups at school that offer support. And if not with a group, then friends can be there to offer reassurance and comfort.
For the most part, we can all agree that high school is no smooth ride. There are ups and downs and a few bumps here and there, and that’s why it is important to ask for help.
For teens struggling with mental health, academics, fitting in, learning about their sexuality, or just finding themselves, a majority of us relate.
We are not alone with our troubles. Having someone to talk to, vent to, cry to, or even just utter two words to and have full understanding and sympathy, along with stories to empathize with, is a huge release.
We should appreciate that we are all going through this together.
There will always be someone to talk to. Whether they are young or old, there are people to listen and to guide us.
Macy How is a grade 11 student at Brooks Secondary School in Powell River.
