Some of our best friends are gay. Really.
It is no longer just something that is said to validate our open-mindedness and inclusion, or to try to downplay our insecurities about the homophobic trappings of a remote, blue-collar town. Having lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people as an important part of our community is something that Powell River can be proud of, now more than ever.
According to members of the gay community, Powell River, for the most part, has welcomed them. This is also something we should be proud of, with room for improvement.
A gay couple can walk down the street showing public affection and the chances of them being harassed are far fewer than even a decade ago. It is an essential human right to have a safe environment and we can be proud of the advancements we have made in this regard.
Powell River has a strong LGBT youth group, encouraging young people to be comfortable with their sexuality and supporting them in the process of coming out; another source of pride.
With Pride Week activities planned for next week, Powell River’s LGBT community will take time to celebrate its diversity with its allies. Its allies are strong and in large numbers, also a fact that we should be very proud of.
With all of this pride to go around, there is also sure to be some shame. It is a shame that homophobia and transphobia is still a problem in our community. Subtle forms of hate, such as using the word “gay” as a derogatory term (we always thought “gay” was such a positive word), are unpleasant reminders that we still have much work to do in order to make Powell River a truly gay-friendly community.
Projects such as LGBT outreach programs and gender-neutral bathrooms help to provide a more inclusive environment, and our community should continue to work in this direction. Ask the LGBT community what they need to truly feel safe and valued, and find a way to make it happen.
Pride is about being able to celebrate yourself and your sexuality openly, and with a strong support system.
The best way to celebrate Pride is to fully embrace the idea that all people love the same.
We all love our families and friends and, with much pride, the LGBT community is among them.
Jason Schreurs, publisher/editor
