Often there are times when we are put into situations where the age gap between adults and teens makes its presence known.
The gap I’m talking about is the misunderstanding and misjudgments that plague how we perceive both adults and teens.
These sorts of stereotypes can go both ways. Teenagers can be seen as lazy, ungrateful, rebellious or rude. Adults, on the other hand, can be seen as boring, controlling or old-fashioned.
Judgments can push us apart at the most crucial times. Teenagers need the advice and support of experienced adults who may guide us through our struggles. If we cannot be trusted, then it is difficult to find independence and move forward toward our futures.
Adults have lived through the stresses of high school, grades, getting a job and basically managing the ins and outs of growing up and maturing. They took the time to learn from their mistakes and push through the difficulties. Who better to turn to than our parents, grandparents or other family members for advice?
It is important that we do not paint a picture of teenagers as being completely irresponsible or rebellious. Establishing trust can make a difference in how a teen behaves.
For the most part, we have it in us to take charge and get things done; although let's not forget that we are still in the midst of making the transition into adulthood and responsibilities and mistakes will be made.
Everyone is learning constantly, no matter how old they are. We should keep open minds and listen to people before we make snap judgments. Even though that is a hard “rule” to live by, we may be surprised by what sort of lesson we may learn from even someone younger than us.
Macy How is a grade 10 student at Brooks Secondary School.
